The Other Orphanage – Part 2

Saturday 3rd November 2007

… the story continues…

We talked to an American guy named Mark, who volunteered at the orphanage years ago and has stayed in touch with Ram. Mark is studying the effects of voluntourism in developing countries and has done lots of research at orphanages, so we asked him if he could help us place some of the children with his contacts at other orphanages.

Then we talked again about the options. Ram has now realised that there’s no way he’s going to be allowed to be involved at all in anything to do with the orphans, and Alan has insisted that their Aamaa leave immediately, as she seems to be the immediate threat.

Daniel was very upset about closing the orphanage, as although he’s willing to do it if it means the children ultimately have a better quality of life, but he can’t bear to split them up, and trying to decide which 5 would come to us and how to split up the other 6 kids was proving terribly hard on him, as he’s so attached to all of them. Continue reading

The Other Orphanage, Part 1

Saturday 3rd November 2007

Before I begin today, you should know that this email is going to be a particularly long one, so I’ve split it into 3 parts, as I need to give you some background to help explain what’s been happening in the last week or two.

I have mentioned in previous emails the orphanage in Kocanna, where my friend Alan is volunteering.
There is a very stark contrast between his orphanage and mine, and my time here has been a picnic compared to some of the things he has had to deal with in the last three months.

There are 12 children there, in a dirty, dark concrete bungalow, the roof leaks when it rains and the water pours down the bedroom walls where the kids sleep.
The owner of the orphanage, Ram, is almost never there, and is really not a nice man at all.

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Orange-fresh Maya

Thursday 1st November 2007

A lot has been happening over here in the last week or so, and I am in the process of writing it all down, but it’s an ongoing problem involving Alan’s orphanage, some serious abuse and neglect of children, and what exactly we’re going to be able to do about it.

We’ve been meeting with people all week, from community police officers, to other orphanages and all sorts of other problems and potential solutions have come up.

It’s such a long and involved story that I’m going to have to wait a bit before I tell you all about it, as the situation has literally changed every day this week, so I can’t type fast enough!

In the meantime, I’m going to tell you all some random little anecdotes to keep you amused, although the next few emails will probably be long and involved – don’t say you weren’t warned! Continue reading

Straining red wine through cold chips

Saturday 27th October 2007

Hello again,
Just thought you’d all like to know that on Tuesday night, around 6pm, I became a vegetarian.

A bit random, but for almost three months I’ve been loving the food here, and it’s been almost completely vegetarian. Then in the last two weeks during Dashain, I have eaten meat almost every day, as I mentioned in my last email, ranging from chickens and goats, to buffalo, mutton and something that was described to me as “sort-of like baby buffalo” – some kind of veal I imagine. Anyway, I was eating my mutton curry for dinner and was literally chewing on a mouthful when the images of all the slaughters I’ve seen recently popped into my head.
I was chewing away on this sinewy, gristly bit of tendon and muscle and I felt utterly reviled and nauseous!

I literally couldn’t swallow my mouthful – I had to spit it out. It was weird cos it was so completely sudden! Continue reading

A bit of local colour

Tuesday 23rd October 2007
Well, almost immediately after writing about how lovely the weather is here, it turned really quite cold!
As the orphanage doesn’t have any heating, Aamaa has dished out extra blankets, and I’ve started to go to bed with a full compliment of jumpers, socks and vests.
I’m thinking I may soon need to invest in a hot water bottle too!
It’s alright during the day once the sun gets going, but the early mornings are freezing cold, and my hands and feet are starting to crack and get all chapped.

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Hinduism for beginners

Tuesday 16th October 2007
Hello again everyone!
Lots of things happening here, so I’d better get on explaining them all!
The weather is still lovely – apart from the odd thunderstorm it’s been sunny and warm, a bit chilly at night, but still t-shirt weather during the day, which is nice!
I was feeling a bit claustrophobic last week, as the initial excitement had worn off and I was starting to get a bit frustrated when I couldn’t understand anything, and no-one could understand me. However, on Friday we had a celebration to mark the beginning of Dashain, the biggest festival of the year, and Aamaa invited lots of her friends who have helped her financially over the last two years, as it was also the 2nd anniversary of the orphanage.

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Everybody has their Everest…

 Tuesday 9th October 2007
Things are settling down a lot more now, which is nice.
We’ve all settled into a routine, and those of you who know me well would be in awe of my new cooking skills!
I can now whip up dhaal bhaat with achaar and tarkari for 30 children without batting an eyelid!
Also, my cooking triumphs have allowed Aamaa and Sabina to get on with other tasks in the mornings, like cleaning and washing clothes and children, so I have been officially accepted as the new morning cook, and to make up for it, am not allowed to do my laundry (this morning Aamaa took my washing and then pointed me towards the kitchen to go and cook the rice!). I’m rather relieved, as it’s exhausting scrubbing it all by hand several times, and the kids can get my clothes much cleaner than I can! (Realising the horror of what I just said even as I wrote that – child labour is just SO much more efficient….)

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Time Travelling in the new millenium

Friday 5th October 2007

Well hello there all you poor, unenlightened people of the past!
I have seen the future, and it is, well, dirty frankly!

You see, while you poor sods slog out your days in the dark technological age of 2007, I am here, sloshing through the mud and sewage of the future. Time travel may seem like some crazy science fiction concept to many of you, but I am in fact writing to you from Kathmandu, Nepal, in the year 2064.

(Although in fact, the very essence of writing to you instantly across a gap of 57 years may well result in parallel universes, causing a rip in the space-time continuum, the consequences of which, as many of you will know, could be disastrous!) Continue reading

Politics, Parenting and The Godmother

Tuesday 25th September 2007
Hello again,
Still nothing about Jeetu, although his older sister came by (who knew he had one?) and told a rather terrifying story about their older brother, who lived in their village and upset a few Maoists a few years back, so the Maoists took him into their village square and very slowly removed his hands and feet with a machete. Obviously, he’s no longer with us, (he bled to death) but it gives everyone even more to worry about, as Jeetu’s brother clearly has enemies in the village, and they might know who he is.
Chirpy isn’t it?

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